Prayer is not an optional activity for Christians—it is the heartbeat of our relationship with God. To develop an active prayer life is to live in ongoing communication with the Father, just as Jesus did during His time on earth.
1 Thessalonians 5:17 (NASB) commands us to “pray without ceasing”. This is not a call to retreat from life into a monastery but an invitation to live every moment with an awareness of God’s presence and a willingness to speak with Him about everything.
The Example of Jesus’ Prayer Life
If we want to develop an active prayer life, we must first look at Jesus. Even though He is the Son of God, prayer was central to His life and ministry.
- Jesus prayed early and often: “And early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house, and went away to a secluded place, and prayed there” (Mark 1:35 NASB).
- He prayed before major decisions: Before choosing the twelve apostles, “He spent the whole night in prayer with God” (Luke 6:12 NASB).
- He prayed in moments of great emotion: In Gethsemane, “He knelt down and began to pray, saying, ‘Father, if You are willing, remove this cup from Me; yet not My will, but Yours be done’” (Luke 22:41–42 NASB).
- He prayed for others: Jesus prayed for His disciples and all future believers in John 17, showing His deep intercession for those who would follow Him.
If Jesus—God in the flesh—needed to pray, how much more should we make prayer a daily priority?
Jesus’ Teaching on Prayer
Jesus not only modeled prayer; He also taught us how to pray. In Matthew 6:9–13, He gave the Lord’s Prayer as a pattern:
“Pray, then, in this way:
‘Our Father, who is in heaven,
Hallowed be Your name.
Your kingdom come.
Your will be done,
On earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.
And do not lead us into temptation, but deliver us from evil’” (NASB).
This prayer emphasizes worship, surrender, dependence on God, forgiveness, and spiritual protection. It’s not just words to recite—it’s a framework for heartfelt conversation with God.
How to Develop an Active Prayer Life
Creating a life of constant prayer requires both discipline and desire. Here are practical steps:
1. Set Aside Dedicated Time
Like Jesus, choose a specific time to meet with God daily. Morning is often best because it sets the tone for the day.
2. Incorporate Prayer Throughout the Day
Prayer is not limited to quiet moments. You can pray while driving, walking, working, or cooking. Keep the dialogue open with God.
3. Pray Scripture
Praying God’s Word aligns your prayers with His will. For example, turn Philippians 4:6–7 into a prayer: “Lord, help me not to be anxious about anything. I bring my needs to You with thanksgiving. Guard my heart and mind with Your peace.”
4. Keep a Prayer Journal
Record your prayers, God’s answers, and lessons learned. This builds faith as you see His hand at work over time.
5. Pray for Others Regularly
Intercession draws us out of self-focus and aligns our hearts with God’s love for people. Jesus modeled this in John 17 when He prayed for His disciples and future believers.
6. Include Praise, Confession, Thanksgiving, and Requests
A balanced prayer life goes beyond asking for needs. Use the ACTS model: Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving, Supplication.
The Power of an Active Prayer Life
When you develop an active prayer life, you:
- Experience deeper intimacy with God (James 4:8)
- Receive strength to face trials (Matthew 26:41)
- Gain clarity in decision-making (Proverbs 3:5–6)
- Grow in spiritual authority (Ephesians 6:18)
Final Encouragement
Jesus invites you to a life of unbroken fellowship with the Father through prayer. Luke 18:1 says, “Now He was telling them a parable to show that at all times they ought to pray and not become discouraged” (NASB).
Don’t let prayer be an afterthought—make it your first instinct and your constant habit. Start today, and like Jesus, live in the unshakable strength that comes from walking in continual communion with God.
Prayer
Father, thank You for the privilege of prayer. Teach me to pray as Jesus prayed—faithfully, passionately, and in alignment with Your will. Help me to live in constant conversation with You, seeking Your presence in every moment. In Jesus’ name, Amen.